As a connector, you have a talent for creating meaning and purpose. You can create clarity out of chaos by staying curious and connecting people and events in a way that makes sense. You connect people with each other, opportunities and themselves. You bring others together to achieve extraordinary results.
Because you exude a genuine, receptive, and caring nature, others open up to you with ease. You are a great listener who hears beyond words, connecting ideas, people and opportunities. Your exceptional empathy gives you an intuitive understanding of what others are feeling and what they need, which makes you an excellent confidante, a great source of encouragement, and a trusted problem-solver.
You are an asset to your team because you naturally bring people together. You build consensus between people. You are passionate about listening openly to everyone’s point of view and finding the common themes that link them. Your harmonious nature soothes conflict and your excellent communication skills inspire those around you. You ask questions that others do not think to ask, imagining something better and driving your team toward creative solutions. As a problem solver, you see beyond the obvious and can help others discover the deeper needs they might not be aware of.
You are invested in the collective good and feel a deep responsibility to find solutions to problems. You prefer to ask big and bold questions, inspiring those around you to consider how much better things could be. Your relationships are valuable to you, and you have a deep desire to make those around you happy.
You believe everything happens for a reason. You believe in people and their ability to unite behind a common purpose.
You fear abandonment, being disliked by others, and not being worthy of the people in your life. Fear is a healthy emotion that alerts us when it is time to get prepared. Fear alerts us to the fact that something needs assessing. When you live in the space of fear it can become paralyzing and confusing. The feelings of anxiety and overwhelm can present themselves as guarded and tense. The opportunity is to embrace the fear as your friend. Shift the shallow breath to a deep breath and ask yourself, “Is this fear justified?” If so, “What do you need to prepare for?” It is also an opportunity to shift your story. Are you telling the story of collaboration vs codependence, being your authentic self vs people pleasing, or doing what is best vs doing what is comfortable?
Peeta Mellark in The Hunger Games
Princess Anna in Frozen